How do you....

How do you tell your brother that he is screwing up everything? How do you remind him that you can not move forward without that two paragraph letter with his signature? How do you say how much this means to you? How do you let him see how important this is to your family? How do you refresh his memory of all those sweet children waiting for a family, the ones you've spoke in depth about to him?

How do you say all of this to a brother who made your life easier all throughout childhood; the brother that made sure that you had clothes and shoes that fit when your parents could not; the very same brother who left school to take care of you?